Traveling this weekend (and Friday) for some social events.
Introvert energy is draineddddd.
#needmetime
Sun, Feb 10, 2019
Life as INTJ: Read, Archive
There are some days when I don’t feel like talking or interact with anyone except family and ka Emil. Then I think how to make myself feel better. It turns out that archiving chats can do that. I feel less overwhelming. No, I never have hundred or thousand chat notification haha. However, as an introvert, sometimes looking at too many chats (even the read ones) overwhelms me. Having too many chats on a chat list is like being in a crowded room even though I’m talking to no one.
Based on this psychology junkie article (https://www.psychologyjunkie.com/2016/08/09/12-stress-busting-techniques-intjs/) “Too much noise or sensory input” is one of the things that cause stress to INTJ. I consider the crowded room metaphor too much noise. LOL.
I know this sounds weird. Nonetheless, it works for me haha.
This is what’s left on my WhatsApp after I archived other messages. I did this to my Line, too, which most of its chats are from official/promo account LOL.
Blog & Friends
If I like your blog and you like mine, there’s a chance we can be a good friend.
#introvert
Ingin Nulis, Tapi..
Ingin nulis kejadian sore ini, tapi takut ada orang baca terus dikira ini ungkapan kebencian 😌 masih belum riset lagi sih apa aja yang termasuk ungkapan tersebut atau bukan (PR!)
Akhirnya nulis di jurnal pribadi wkwkwk terus pas ka Emil baca, diketawain 😂
Bonus foto: senja di Jakarta, nunggu bis ga dateng-dateng (ah sudah tidak perlu diungkit, hanya bikin mewek lagi aja)
Pesan moral:
- Harus bersyukur
- Lebih menikmati hidup di Bandung. Tidak ingin kerja atau tinggal di Jakarta, ga kuat sama lalu lintasnya kalau mesti tiap hari wkwk semoga tidak perlu diharuskan kerja di Jakarta hehe ✌
- Cepat dapet SIM biar bisa lebih mandiri 😩 (dan biar ga mesti ketemu terlalu banyak manusia #introvert :p )
Essential: Journaling
Need it so much. ðŸ’ðŸ’ðŸ’
Eavesdropping (or Overheard?) In Public Places…
As an introvert, I don’t like being in crowded places, not because sometimes I’m alone in those places (Yes, I enjoy wandering around by myself, it’s actually fun, tho LOL). Crowded places just overwhelmed for me haha.
But there are times when I cannot just stay at home or kostan, that’s when I have to face the crowd. In order to “have fun” in the crowded places, I think of it as a lab, I observe people. And eavesdropping is part of it. I don’t mean to eavesdrop, but some people are just talk so loud that I overheard what they say :)) First, I overheard, then if the conversation is interesting (there are some overheard conversations that i decided to not continue listening to, haha), I continue listen to it (is it called eavesdropping?) *smirk*
Is it my fault that i overheard what they say? They talk so loud in a public place after all 😂
And what i do next? I analyze the observation result :)) I think about their personalities, age, behavior, background, what makes them do what they do, what make their personalities :)) This thinking process make my experience in crowded places enjoyable haha weird, I know. And very UX (?) or like an investigator who spy on people? (Yeah, i watch many films and series in this genre such as NCIS, The Catch haha)
It’s a random post i write while waiting for movie. How about you readers, do you have similar experiences? What do you do when you overheard people next to you?